One cannot underestimate the power of “no.” This is the power we have to make a choice. On the one hand, it is rather very simple, yet on the other hand, it can be oh so difficult in the face of some temptation, habit, or addiction. Perhaps there is a need to pray more for the power of “no.” Such has been, at times, the advice that I’ve given concerning the discipline of saying “no.” Upon further reflection however, I have discovered that indeed there need be something more; that there must be something more than simply “no.” Before one can say “no” in the face of some temptation, it is necessary and essential that one say “yes.” Before one can truly say “no” to the Evil One, one must truly say “yes” to Our Lord. Otherwise that “no” will be senseless and will wind up being just a matter of suppressing and jamming thoughts and feelings into a steam pipe within. That steam pipe will likely at least leak a bit at times, or if tightly sealed, will one day burst spectacularly with unfortunate effect. A daily “yes” transforms us along with thoughts and feelings such that nothing need be suppressed; such that nothing can be. Our daily “yes” must consist of grasping the Cross and looking upon Our Lord – Suffering, Risen, and All-Powerful. Our “yes” must consist of a daily invitation inviting Him into our lives, our hopes, and our dreams. It must consist of a daily invitation into our everyday activities, routines, studies, and work. Though we have now once again entered into Ordinary Time, there is nothing ordinary about being a Christian. Before any of us can say “no” to that which we want to change about ourselves or rid ourselves of, we must say “yes” daily to that most extraordinary vocation to which we are called – being Christian.
Peace!
Fr. Wilson