Mother’s Day and meals go together. It seems that, that is what all mothers really want. It is a day quite busy for restaurants with reservations made. Oh, don’t get me wrong. Mothers certainly love cards, flowers, or gifts. Homemade cards from children are especially dear. That was a ritual for me in grade school. Such cards were proudly displayed by my mother – held by a magnet on the refrigerator door. One year, there was a classroom project to make a Mother’s Day plate. That plate, held by a special clasp, hung on the kitchen wall above the doorway for many, many years thereafter. In fact, it remained there long after my mother was called home by God. Cards and gifts are wonderful, but it is the meal that truly stands out. It is the meal where memories are made and it is the meal where the true meaning of motherhood is underscored. It is not the food had at the meal or the location. The meal might be surf & turf or a simple, but tasty salad. It might be had at a fancy, five-star restaurant or a local chain eatery. But, it is the gathering with family that makes the day special – and makes the meaning of motherhood clear. All mothers desire to gather with their children. This is true of the Blessed Mother as well. Although we may not always be able to be physically present with mom (say if she’s enjoying the sunny beaches of Florida) – technology today can help us to bridge the gap when we make a video call. Ultimately, it is our Faith that helps us to bridge the gap and with it we can be eternally present to mom and one another. I share a meal with my mother not just on Mother’s Day, but every Sunday. She’s there at the altar with me. You may not see her – but, I do. In fact, the Blessed Mother’s there too! Enjoy your Mother’s Day and enjoy your meal! And don’t forget to tell mom how much you love her! Love you, Ma! Happy Mother’s Day!
Peace!
Fr. Wilson